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It took me half a lifetime to come to terms with my sexuality, which, at times, has felt like an unfathomable burden.
In spite of my sexual impulses, which have occasionally felt like an addiction, the romantic side never entered my head. I would go cottaging while still at school, partly because a quick thrill was so much easier than having to go through the rituals of s courtship and risk rejection.
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I suspect there are many more guys out there like me. I thought that I would adopt a gay lifestyle when I left home to go to university, but despite regular cottaging and cruising, I never felt fully gay.
I have never had a gay relationship, rarely kissed another guy, and would no more fall in love with another man than the next straight guy.
Comments on this piece are premoderated to ensure the discussion remains on the topics raised by the article. I guess the gay community would say I am gay; I would dispute that.
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