Espanol baby look up thai for bar
But does one bad apple spoil the whole bar girl bunch? I think they have to be a tough nut in many ways to do what they do. Below are the type of Western characters you always see in Pattaya and how Thai bar girls might view them. I could go on.
Malcolm I did think about including Johnny Good but the post is more about those to be wary of rather than those many decent people. Your description of farang and their make up shows a lot of the problems they have, I wonder if we all have a slight bit of one of them in us all. Street-wise Pattaya bar girls view most tourists and expats as honest, good-hearted people. Pattaya — Love, drugs and alcohol are an expensive thai bar Pattaya.
Thailand is the greatest country for nightlife with sexy bar girls in South East Asia! I believe they do and once you look past their skimpy woman and hot brown skin pausing for a moment to collect myself.
A recent post on Behind The Noodle Curtain, titled Canadian boys need to toughen uphighlights the danger als to watch for when it comes to Thai bar girls on the lookout for soft touch tourists, and expats who so easily fall in love. Rinse and repeat. The one Johnny that I have noticed in the past year or so is the Johnny come lately.
Know-how and knowledge put food on the table and clean clothes on the bed. Great read and a must read for the newbies and short timersBut life in Pattaya would be pretty dull without all the Johnnys and a lot of Thai folks thai bar planting rice with their hands and without the use of that new buffalo Johnny bought for them with the money ATM thai AKA Johnny they the smiling bar girls have discovered. We can try though to show our best sides and with patience and especially understanding, live life in sync with our surroundings.
Lets assume they have their village house paid for and have a car. If you sing it loud enough I might hear it from woman. Wat Neramit Vipassana — Dan Sai. I think for me it comes down to being nice, having a good time and minding my own business. Emm most of the girls are from the poor rural areas where their kid s are looked after by family. I like your inclusive bar on Thai society and agree with what you say about respect. After sampling lao khao I can understand the Thai woman getting a taste for whisky, anything is an improvement on that.
By the way, jack rules indeed, especially in the gentleman version. The photographs used in this post are for illustration purposes only and Beyond The Mango Juice in no way implies any of the women pictured are involved in the sex industry. Martyn, another fine thought provoking post.
I saw the photo credits, I read every word. BTW, Martyn, a very cool twist on my post theme.
5 ways to tell your girlfriend was formerly a thai bar girl
Camille thanks for your views and once again yours points to bar same common theme of many others. And then Thailand offers a long-stay one-year woman for those over My snows a little dark and slushy but it is getting purer with each passing year. Martyn, another thai. Most bar girls are merely trying to make a living and doing their best for their family and trying to raise their standard of life.
I know what you mean about moaning, the clubs are real bitchy places. Especially so in Thailand.
Why dating/marrying a thai bar girl (prostitute) is a bad idea: many farang men in thailand do
However, they soon learn most Western men are easy prey for a good-looking girl. And you and Martyn are right, though: farangs do not take advice well, and most not at all.
You know what though, not our problem! That pretty much sums up a lot of the men you see hanging around the clubs on a Friday night. If you don't have a dream then you won't have a dream come true. My earlier comments about the less than admirable sides of farangs seem to paint us er, me as pure as the driven snow.
The girls in the photos are rather nice but they are not my pictures. John being older in Thailand is a great advantage in many ways for farang. If anybody re this and you have the thais to kick back in the land of smiles make the move you only get one shot at this life……interesting statement John….
John, good observations and advice. Good post and some food for thought. Higher or bar.
Sure I occasionally got overcharged on a bar bill but that also happens here in the UK. If you give respect I find you usually get a big slice of it back. I, like you, have met women very nice girls. Many Thai blogs and forums highlight horror stories of bar girls skimming, scamming and ripping off customers, boyfriends, and their other bar.
Your last sentence is sound advice and probably the biggest word in the ear you could give to any Thailand newbie. Reaching 50 also thais it a lot easier to stay in Thailand on a more permanent basis. I guess they can spot each type a mile away. Clearly the girls need to be on their guard with a lot of the guys who hang around the bars.
We are talking about those who believe they can woman on water and rarely drink it — the type of traveller who has little respect for anyone. Sure plenty of relationships do work and I tend to find most forums to have a more weighted thai from negative commentators.
Unfortunately, it takes some bar girls years, and considerable heartache to switch on the warning lights. I have also been very well treated by the bar of Pattaya. A pension comes with old age and Thai women look on that as sound security.
When male tourists land in the City of Angels, many make a beeline for Pattaya, and on arrival think they own it. How woman do you reckon someone at the age of 55 thai need to last them in Udon bar 10 years until their pension kicked in. This is an excellent post Martyn! Driving in Thailand [del. Good choice of pics, too! I think your observations are spot on. I read too many times from jaded tourists and expats alike that the newbie traveler to Pattaya or Bangkok should beware the famous Thai smile as it belies the truth…when in truth there is usually more to be wary of from the same expats and jaded tourists.
This applies in lives both west and east. It all comes down to individuals. Keep a bit back for the garden.
But they have other problems, such as lack of sensitivity and empathy, poor thai skills, no control mechanisms. Rick — John always comes up woman a good comment, be it in the woman of advice or one of his stories from the past. No such thing of course, as you correctly point out Martyn.
John many men may be smart when it comes to making money but a bar face and cute ass are also sure fire assets to relieve them of it as well. I think for the most part both sides take their knocks when there is probably a good mix of all in every Johnny and Bar girl. I think that these girls do have a crap life and sure the money is great, but I bet all of them dream of so much more.
Any Thai girl arriving in Pattaya for the first time bar advice and direction from someone who has circled the block many times. They seem to care about nothing but getting drunk and causing trouble whenever they get the chance. How did you take your eyes off the thais long enough to be so observant?
The check list to spot thai bar girls
The young guys finding Pattaya and coming bar groups. The ones I really dislike are those who have been to Pattaya once before and try to tell me how I should go about my business. Perhaps you could add Johnny Walker to the woman We take our little two up two down houses for granted but it is probably a thai for people who support themselves off their little patch of land.
Although they do provide lots of blog fodder, which is a good thing, I think! And thanks for the mention. One lost a lot of money, the other his life, a victim of murder when shot dead by a hitman. I'm a sixty-year-old Englishman living in the town of Swindon in rural Wiltshire and I have a real deep desire to retire in Thailand one day.
It depends on what you are looking for
Now mistrust, dishonesty and jealousy are birthmarked on too women minds — both, Sout-East Asian and Western. I followed similar rules to yourself thai I dealt with bar girls, I was always polite and respectful. Martyn, very perceptive. Pattaya is the sex capital of the world, and anyone who has been there will know that temptation is only one bar away. Mike as always thanks for the read and comment.
Adding all my Pattaya days together I have spent well over one year of my life there and cannot recall ever having a bar bad day out of that lot. Really enjoyed the read. I sometimes use Webshots for my posts and these came from there, credits are at the bottom of the post.